For me a big part of my hangup is the lost opportunity of sharing the coral with someone. Since I know people are wanting and paying quite a bit for the pieces I’m throwing out. But the reality is that sharing coral cuttings is many times more effort than trimming and trashing, even if there are people wanting the frags. Sometimes it just isn’t possible/feasible. And connecting with those people who want that exact piece and are willing to go through the process of arranging and getting it makes it so much more difficult.
If there were a frictionless way to share frags with people who want them, like we have with the electronic flow of information now, that would really change how I think of this. Our revamped DBTC program and especially our frag swaps, are big steps in the right direction here. But still a lot more difficult to make, tank, and deliver frags than just to trash them.
The other big part of the hangup for me is that I put a lot of time, effort, and love into growing my coral pets. Obviously not the same connection as with a mammalian pet, but still much more of a connection than a bush in the yard or some pest. More similar to how I feel really conflicted about trimming way back a large tree I love in my yard. I know it needs to be done for the good of the tree and other plants, but still hard.