Well, I have some "unconventional" ideas that worked on my last tank:
1. For the suction sound coming from the air inlet in your stockman overflow pipe try running a powerhead to push water down the air hole. Sounds odd I know, but I found if you push a good jet straight down the center of your overflow pipe it made the flow better and almost completely silenced that part of the tube.
1a. Another alternate is to make a silencer for the inlet. Take two 1.25" encaps and connect them with ~3" of pipe. Drill an inlet and outlet in both endcaps. Connect one end to flex tube you then connect to the stockman. Stuff the tube with filter floss and then try tuning it
2. For the hum from the pipe, i.e. the sound of water actually running down the pipe, try wrapping the pipe with dynamat. Not easy to do on flexi tube, but can be helpful. Aother idea is to make your tube rigid, straight and larger in diameter. Wherever the water "hits' the walls of the pipe you will get some amount of sound. But, #3 has a solution for this.
3. This is definitely the most avant garde idea of the bunch. Make a U-tube water silencer in the down flow tubing. What you need to do is make a U bend (similar to what is under a kitchen sink only longer) out of ~2.5" PVC pipe before you plumb it into your sump. This should silence the water rush a little and should remove most, if not all of the bubbles.
I hope this helps.