I used to use a refractometer and calibrated with 35ppt solution, but I would have to re-calibrate it more than I would like and therefore didn't really trust it. Also, if you use calibration solution, that can get out of whack over time due to evaporation, so for me that's two things I can't really trust.
I now use a Tropic Marin Hydrometer and there's no need to calibrate as long as you take into consideration any temperature differences. I have a small tank like you, so it's not deep enough for the hydrometer, but I fill a 500ml graduated cylinder with 450ml of tank water, put the hydrometer in the cylinder, spin it to remove any bubbles, then let it to settle to get my salinity measurement. I can get my salinity checked in the same amount of time as the refractometer, if you count the 45-ish wait for the refractometer's automatic temperature compensation, and way faster than if I had to calibrate my refractometer.