I completely understand you
@coral4me, I had the same problems as you. After their most recent update I changed from using the kessil ssid (the manufacturer’s recommended method) to using my home WiFi. It was still a pain to get it done but I’ve not had any problems since then with having to rejoin the lights. I also backed the programming up to the cloud which made it go smoother since there were a couple resets to get it done.
@lurker_dude, I have a 48” x 30” and have two ap700’s that I have oriented perpendicularly.