Why not just use some very fine sand?
That said I wouldn't use RO/DI'd water that came from a desalinization plant that pulled water from the bay.
Sugar fine sand is still 0.2 to 1.2 mm, so pretty large.
Supposedly they do a lot better with mud/silt.
Looking at some pollution reports, there does seem to be a lot of nasty things in the bay.
So yes, maybe not the best plan.
And of course, the mud from the bay is 100% silica based. No coral here.
Although Miracle mud was tested to be the same... so...