The Tunze osmolator worked well for me, you have to open it up with screws to set it to “nano” mode so that when it turns back on after a power off (like when doing water changes) it doesn’t pump too much water into your tank. When it powers back on, it does this to “season” something, regardless of the water level in the aquarium. Annoying in my opinion, but if you do less frequent water changes it might not bother you. I also have the Neptune ATO in storage bin haven’t used it, since I still haven’t bought a Neptune control system, but it would be nice if you had the whole Neptune ecosystem to stick with their ATO. The Neptune top off kit includes a large float valve which is less ideal if you have a small sump, but you have a 40g breeder with plenty of room.
If you want to break away from all this you’re welcome to take a look at our ATO setup, we decided we’re tired of carrying heavy containers of RO water through our house. We have an RO outside with waste going to the garden, with a pressure stop valve at the RO inlet, and it outputs to a float valve inside a small (2g) container in the tank stand. This empties by gravity to the sump float valve (the Red Sea way). We also have an emergency overfill drain from the RO container to the crawl space in case all that backfires.