My understanding from reading some threads in RC, the 6 months life span is true for 400 watts bulb, because the bulb is not actually rate for 400 watts, but slightly below than that (I do not remember the number). Therefore, you overdriven the bulb. The 250 watts bulb has the actual specs as is, so it should last the same as other bulb out there 9-12 months.
I am recently switch to 250 watts Radium and we will see how long it will last before I need to switch bulbs. Looking forward for Sanjay's long term test result though.