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I like that! Friends club is what we want. Not a boys club.
I would love it if you took the time in your writing to apply that idea - instead of feeling everyone should work hard to understand what you really mean and not take it the wrong way.

Put some generosity and respect into your posts, along with some clarity.
 
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This is kind of insane.

keep saying what? You keep misunderstanding so I keep trying to clear it up.

This? Yes. If you really want to be heard, attend a meeting.
But you misread it the first time I said it, and missed the 'really'. Again, you are heard if you don't attend a meeting, but if you feel that you aren't being heard, attend a meeting.

Maybe it is. They are working hard to make the club go - you seem to be whinging.

Sure you and others did.

Not on its own, but in conjunction with being a member of the BOD, of course it does give you and extra say, along with extra responsibilities. I don't believe I said anything about it being unfair to critize them, nor did I think it. By definition, being on the BOD gives you say that members and not members don't have.

Because you are not a member of the BOD, don't go to meetings, and don't do the work of making the club go.

For someone that said they don't like it when people read things into their posts that they don't mean, you sure have no problem doing the same thing to me.
I think your starting to get my points.
 
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I would love it if you took the time in your writing to apply that idea - instead of feeling everyone should work hard to understand what you really mean and not take it the wrong way.

Put some generosity and respect into your posts, along with some clarity. You are the one saying 'boys club' 'badge' and 'boys club'.
 
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I would love it if you took the time in your writing to apply that idea - instead of feeling everyone should work hard to understand what you really mean and not take it the wrong way.

Put some generosity and respect into your posts, along with some clarity.
I give back the same passive aggressive interaction that’s given to me
 
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Can beat them Block them! Haha
Daymn Bro. I didn’t lock this conversation up because I didn’t want everyone to be like BOD locks things up when it’s on going their way. Open discussion, No anger, No insults.
I’m very saddened.
I’m locking it. If you disagree. Dm me. I’m locking it. Will. Not BOD. Just me. Will.
 
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