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I am sad to heat that. I can't imagine what you and your boyfriend are going through. My best to all of you and I hope the DR's are wrong about how long he has
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i cant make it guys.. my boyfriends dad was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer and has until christmas to live, so unfortunately im going to have to miss the meeting (again). my apologies.
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I am sad to heat that. I can't imagine what you and your boyfriend are going through. My best to all of you and I hope the DR's are wrong about how long he has
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Thanks, Gresh, i hope so too, but were up in Oregon (snowing like crazy here! freezing!) now, and hes definitely not doing well, but appears to be in good spirits today, so we all feel better about that. its really sad, but theres nothing we can do but try and make him as comfortable as possible, so we seem to have that under control... but yeah, totally not going to be a good christmas, not to mention all my tanks look like @$$ right now, because im never there to take care of them. i can already see signs of stress, and so i think i actually might have to take a break from the hobby temporarily....