I had my first tank in 1985 and got my fish from 'Tis Tropical Fish in Fountain Valley, I hope that is enough experience for you.
I see, "It's a public forum but don't post any negative experiences from the sponsors, but it's okay if it's about their competitors. But wait @iCon, your opinion is worthless because you're just a guest."
I think posting experiences from sponsors is encouraged -- good and bad as long as they are approached reasonably and with a grain of common sense. I suspect our sponsors want to hear about negative experiences so that they can improve -- those are helpful. What's not helpful is unreasonable expectations and rants from a customer grasping at straws and making assumptions. You don't have a leg to stand on with your assumptions and accusations -- that's not encouraged.
On a positive note at least you paid the money and joined the club because of this.