interesting, never looked into that!.
so change the return pipe into a second drain. and make another tube do over the edge. would you guys suggest hard pvc piping, or the flexiable stuff? (im currently using flexable stuff)
ill try googling what this would look like. is it quieter? safer?
For the return over the edge, definitely do hard PVC, if anything just for the over the edge stuff, you could do flexible to the lip then throw in a couple street ells to get over the edge, just make sure the connection between flexible and solid is secure so there's no leaking PVC glue does work with "spa flex" pipe if that's the flexible stuff you're using don't think it works with the clear tubing though. But either way no way you're getting flexible stuff over the edge without kinking your tube.
As for quieter/safer, yes.
One method that I did was you make the smaller of the two pipes lower in your box, put a gate valve on that one, restrict it a bit such that the water level rises high enough over the pipe so you get no air being pulled down, the idea is the rising height increases the pressure hence the velocity of water through the pipe and you reach a "sweet spot" it does require a bit of fine tuning though. The other pipe is your emergency, and at most water will trickle over in it, sometimes it's quiet enough sometimes it's loud. But either way definitely doable with just 2 pipes to have the safety factor in there and quiet. The downside is that over time your return pump might change slightly due to crud, calcification, older so slower, and that "sweet spot" will no longer be there, so might have to readjust.