Update, quite a few mushrooms went all funky on me, unsure if that's due to lower temperatures, stresses in moving, or there was "something" left on the tank, which IMO there shouldn't be since all I did was sit it on it's side and sprayed off the gunk when I broke it down.
Also I'm probably going to lose my male tomato clown, I noticed today he's not in an anemone... and he has no tale (freshly removed it seems)... don't know if the anemone started to digest him while sleeping, or if he got a little too close to a power head, but yeah he looks like he might be on his way out. I'm tempted to toss him in the refugium just to try and let him heal, but when I did he freaked out.... plus before I could put a grate on the outpipe he took a water slide ride back into the tank.
Leathers are finally starting to pop polyps out, although still droopy.
I really wish the woman didn't like the stuff in this tank so much, or I'd remove huge swaths of stuff (blue palys, mushrooms, etc), and maybe only keep anemones and "nice" zoathids.