I would just let it be since I think it makes another notification if you drop out of line lol. It’s ok it’s not too big of a deal, people will start posting in other threads and the threads you brought back to life will be pushed down.
As for as requesting a lot of DBTC, I don’t think it’s a problem if you have an established tank and a strategy, but not for a new tank that’s still establishing. Lot of ups and downs with new tanks. The point of DBTC is to grow out and spread coral around. Not sure what kind of SPS you’re growing out currently but some of the rare pieces you requested are on a different ball park of difficulty, hence why a lot of these threads are dead. Not sure if barcode shows it when you request but a lot of people actually have rules to their DBTC as well that you should checkout before requesting. I know personally I don’t give DBTC to people without tank journals because I like to see their tank and make sure the person im giving coral to actually has the ability to grow the coral out and spread it. Deaths happen but it would be kinda dumb just to give a bunch of coral for someone to put into a new establishing tank. I would suggest to ride it out with what you have, maybe pickup some stater DBTC pieces, and wait until things settle down before requesting some of the harder stuff. Also, make a tank journal so people can see your progress.
You didn’t break any rule and yeah it might be a little annoying for the threads to be revived to the main page but it’s not the end of the world. They’ll get pushed down and filled in with other stuff in a couple days. Like Mike said, you’re not the first and won’t be the last. Hopefully you’ll be able to make it out to the next frag swap, like Michael said, good place to get your hands on some different coral and meet other members. Hope to see you there!