@FeliciaLynn I deeply appreciate all the work you put into getting things going and set up. I don't mean to be negative.
Lots of interesting points here. Congratulations, everyone participating in this thread is automatically inducted into the swap planning committee.
There is no doubt in my mind BAR should be raising the bar (harhar), however rather than seek to punish offenders (who may not even be aware of the ramifications of their actions), let's give them the opportunity and tools to enable better swap etiquette. Let's keep the focus on reinforcing the positives. There may be a few bad apples, but don't let anyone spoil what is otherwise a fun and engaging event. As a community we only improve when everyone pitches in to help each other.
First off, let me say that I appreciate the hard work of all the volunteers that put together the frag swap. I also appreciate the time and energy that the BOD puts into keeping the group running and putting on all the events through the year. I don't think that there is a person in the club that doesn't feel the same way. It's been expressed by many members, on numerous threads including this one, but it probably can't really be said enough. The swap was a fun event and I think that everyone involved did an amazing job.
I've tried a number of really wordy responses for the rest of what's been discussed, but I think it boils down to this: We really should be able to have an honest, respectful discussion and people should be able to share their opinions - good, bad, and indifferent.
I created this thread because other members wanted to have a discussion and were commenting in other threads. I tried to spin this thread towards the positive.
You can't please everyone, but that doesn't mean that we shouldn't try to improve events. BOD has mentioned on more than one occasion that they want more member involvement. You can't expect members to be involved in the club if their opinions are dismissed or they don't feel comfortable sharing their opinions here. Those are the members that don't come back or don't renew their memberships.
Finally, I'm not the only one that can create a thread! There is a "Kudos" section under "Community Discussion" where you can start a thread and thank the "frag swap team" for hosting a great event. I think the "What went GREAT at the Frag Swap?" thread or a just a "Thank You" thread would be a great idea.
Hi Darcy! Glad you are now a member! I am always pruning back my xenia and GSP so would be happy to give you some anytime! I also enjoy the movement, color, and pulsing of the xenia. I haven't tried to attach cuttings to a frag plug but @Nav came over once and took some and I think threaded it onto a plug....(Nav, did it survive?!) I can definitely try doing that before giving you some! It is very slimy! P.S. my ricordea from you at the swap is still doing great and I love it!!I have a suggestion regarding beginner corals. I feel that maybe some xenia should be removed from the beginner list. I once got an awesome Red Sea pompom xenia which I loved. Eventually, as with many xenia colonies, it crashed. I would like to see people bringing in xenia, as it can be tricky to get it started (sometimes the frags just melt away) and the colonies do have a tendency to crash, so even though it's "beginner" it would be nice to have access to it from time to time in our softie/mixed tanks.